Choosing a Divorce Lawyer

Choosing a Divorce Lawyer

Everyone wants to come through a divorce in the best possible position. One of the surest ways to achieve this is by instructing a high-quality solicitor to manage your case. A good divorce lawyer will be a crucial member of your support network—someone you can trust, communicate with comfortably, and rely on to safeguard your interests, no matter what happens during the divorce process. Yet with numerous options available, finding the right person can feel daunting.

What to Look For in Your First Meeting

Meeting face to face is often the best way to establish rapport, so we suggest booking an in-person appointment at the solicitor’s office if possible. However, many firms—including HM & Co. Solicitors—now also offer online appointments, which can be highly convenient.

During your initial conversation, consider:

  • Comfort and Understanding: Do you feel at ease talking to the solicitor, and are they attentive to your needs? Are they empathetic and trustworthy?
  • Relevant Experience: Have they managed cases similar to yours? Do they seem knowledgeable and confident about how best to proceed?
  • Clear Guidance: By the end of your first meeting, you should have a sense of how your case might progress and feel reassured about the next steps.

Watch Out for Solicitors Who Clock-Watch

If a lawyer appears overly conscious of the time during your first meeting, it may indicate they do not fully value your situation. A skilled, client-focused solicitor will be genuinely interested in your case and ensure you leave feeling supported and with a clear plan of action.

Managing the Cost of Divorce

Some people worry they cannot afford legal representation for their divorce. Consider:

  • Long-Term Value: A family law specialist may secure a more favourable financial outcome for you, making the investment worthwhile.
  • Fixed Fee Options: Some solicitors offer fixed fee divorces to help you budget.
  • Efficiency: Solicitors often charge by the hour, so being organised—having documentation ready and avoiding unnecessary emails or calls—can keep costs down.
  • Emotional Support: Solicitors deal with legal matters rather than providing therapy. If you feel overwhelmed, we recommend counselling or therapy, which can also help keep your legal fees to a minimum.

How HM & Co. Solicitors Can Help

At HM & Co. Solicitors, we recognise that each family law case is unique. We tailor our services to you, striving to make the process easier to understand. Our experienced team is here to guide you with the expertise and care you need to navigate your divorce or any other family-related issues.

HM & Co. Solicitors
186 Lower Road
Surrey Quays
London SE16 2UN

Telephone: 02071128180
Email: info@hmsolicitorsltd.com

Contact us to discuss your situation, and we’ll help find the solicitor who’s right for you.

Your Questions, Answered

FAQs

Choosing a Divorce Lawyer FAQs

How can I get personal recommendations for a divorce solicitor?

Word of mouth remains a powerful way to find a reliable solicitor. Ask trusted friends or relatives who’ve been through a divorce for their recommendations. They can offer insights into law firms and individual lawyers who provided excellent service—and caution you about those who did not. Remember, though, that everyone’s needs differ; a solicitor who suited someone else may not be the right fit for you.

 

Should I search for divorce lawyers online?

Yes. Searching for solicitors in your area and visiting their websites can help you learn about their specialities and expertise. A firm that regularly updates its site, providing blogs and news items, demonstrates both currency and engagement with developments in family law. You should also be able to read profiles of individual solicitors, including information on their specific areas of practice.

 

Why choose a specialist family law firm?

A practice focusing solely on divorce, children matters, and family law will naturally have greater depth of experience with these issues. This means they’re better positioned to advise you based on significant hands-on knowledge of the complexities surrounding divorce and separation.

 

What about recommendations from The Legal 500 or Chambers?

These directories offer independent assessments of solicitors and law firms. If advice from friends or family is insufficient, checking Chambers and The Legal 500 can be a reliable way to gauge a lawyer’s track record and quality of service. You can search for recommendations in your region on both sites.

 

Do I need a solicitor near me?

Many clients value having their solicitor locally, so they can meet face to face. Since the pandemic, however, many solicitors also hold online video consultations. While phone and email remain common, face-to-face or virtual appointments can help you feel more at ease—choose the method that suits you best.

 

Should I confirm if they’re regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority (SRA)?

Absolutely. Check the firm’s website or the SRA’s online register to ensure they are authorised and regulated. You might also look for affiliation with The Law Society. These credentials guarantee that the firm abides by professional standards.

 

Is it important if the firm is a member of Resolution?

Yes. Resolution promotes constructive and amicable solutions in family law disputes. Membership indicates a commitment to resolving conflict in a way that preserves dignity and minimises distress—a clear sign that the firm aims to reduce conflict wherever possible.

 

Can I read online reviews or testimonials?

Yes. Many people check platforms such as Trustpilot or Google reviews to gauge a firm’s reputation. Client testimonials are also often displayed on the firm’s own website. This research can help you understand the experiences of previous clients.

 

Can I choose whether I’d prefer a male or female solicitor?

Certainly. You should work with someone you feel comfortable speaking to about personal matters. If it’s important to you, don’t hesitate to request a male or female solicitor.

 

How do I manage the cost of legal services for divorce?

At your first meeting, ask about fees. Some firms offer fixed-fee arrangements; others charge an hourly rate. The more senior the solicitor, the higher their hourly rate may be, so find out who will be handling your case. Also ask about the frequency of billing and how they’ll keep you updated on costs. A reputable firm will provide a fee estimate up front.

 

Why do I need a divorce solicitor?

A specialist solicitor ensures you seek a fair financial outcome and helps agree key issues such as child arrangements. While you can technically divorce without legal representation, certain scenarios strongly benefit from professional help, such as:

  • Uncertainty over where children will live
  • Joint debts or complex assets (e.g., business ownership, trusts, or overseas funds)
  • Situations involving abuse or potential hostility
  • Feeling overwhelmed by legal processes

 

How will a divorce lawyer help me?

A good family solicitor will:

  • Clarify the divorce process and offer practical options
  • Interpret and handle complex legal documents
  • Represent you in court if proceedings arise

 

What about costs—should they discuss them openly?

Yes. You should always discuss your budget. Solicitors’ fees can vary widely depending on their experience, location, and your case’s complexity. Ensuring clarity on costs is essential. A solicitor who’s transparent about fees and possible outcomes is more likely to inspire trust and confidence.

 

Do they offer clear solutions for resolving my case?

A quality divorce lawyer will provide realistic advice based on their expertise, rather than raising false hopes about costs or outcomes. Their familiarity with similar cases will help you feel more confident in the steps ahead.


Need Further Advice? Contact HM & Co. Solicitors If you’re seeking a trusted divorce solicitor, we’re here to assist.

HM & Co. Solicitors
186 Lower Road
Surrey Quays
London SE16 2UN

Telephone: 02071128180
Email: info@hmsolicitorsltd.com

We offer a personalised approach, backed by experience in all aspects of family law. Our goal is to guide you through your divorce with empathy, clarity, and professionalism.

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