Unmarried couples who live together (i.e., cohabiting) do not have the same protections as married couples if their relationship breaks down. Disputes often arise about who owns what in the family home, which might be the largest—and most emotionally significant—asset shared by a couple. In this blog post, we explore how The Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act (TOLATA) 1996 applies to cohabiting couples and what can be done to protect your interests or defend a claim.
TOLATA is legislation that can be used when unmarried cohabitees (or other parties) cannot agree on how their property or land should be owned or dealt with after they separate. Typically, TOLATA claims arise over:
Under TOLATA, courts have the power to clarify property ownership, decide how and if it should be sold, and confirm who is entitled to live in it.
Contrary to the myth of a “common law marriage,” no automatic rights exist for cohabiting couples. If you and your partner separate, your legal status is different from a married couple. Courts will primarily rely on trust and land law rather than the principles used to divide assets in divorce.
Hence, if an unmarried couple splits and can’t agree who owns the property, the court will examine:
Even if you paid a large deposit or covered most mortgage payments, you may not necessarily have a greater share unless it’s been agreed and recorded. That’s where TOLATA can come into play—through a court application, a judge can rule on how much of the property each person owns and decide whether it should be sold.
When it comes to deciding property ownership, the court can:
However, the court does not have the same powers as in divorce cases, meaning it cannot reallocate a property’s proportions simply to achieve a ‘fair share.’ It must work with the evidence of each party’s contribution and intentions.
When looking at a TOLATA claim, the family court primarily reviews:
You can dispute a TOLATA claim by presenting evidence that counters the other party’s assertions. For instance, you may argue you never intended to share equity or that the property was always yours alone. However, if you and your ex can’t reach an agreement out of court, the matter may end up in a contested trial—with inevitable legal costs and stress.
Many cohabiting couples aren’t aware they can formalise their ownership intentions in writing well before any dispute arises:
A cohabitation agreement goes beyond property issues, covering day-to-day finances, bills, savings, and what should happen if the relationship ends. Although not automatically binding, it holds significant weight if drawn up properly and both parties have taken independent legal advice.
This is a more targeted document focusing solely on who holds what share of the property. It makes future disagreements about ownership far less likely. A Declaration of Trust is often drawn up when a home is purchased.
If negotiations fail, you can apply to the court under TOLATA. Applications typically fall into three categories:
Evidence, including documents showing financial contributions, text messages or emails about ownership, and witness statements, will be crucial. You may also need to attend court hearings.
At HM & Co. Solicitors, we handle cohabitation disputes regularly. Whether you’re looking to set up a cohabitation agreement or you’re facing a property dispute post-separation, our team can guide you through the complexities of TOLATA and ensure your rights are protected.
If you’re unsure of your next step, we’re here to listen, advise, and find the best route forward for you and your family.
During the pre-action phase, the claimant writes to the defendant (often called a “Pre-Action Letter”) outlining the basis of their claim, including a summary of the relevant facts and the outcome they seek. If they are seeking a sum of money, they should explain how that sum has been calculated. The defendant then responds to this letter. Both parties also exchange any key documents they believe support their arguments. At this stage, they are encouraged to consider some form of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), such as mediation, to see if a settlement can be reached without going to court.
If the parties can’t settle during the pre-action phase, the claimant will send a Claim Form to the court. This involves paying the TOLATA court fee. The court process will formally begin at this point.
Yes. Even after starting court proceedings, if the defendant accepts some or all of the claim, or if negotiations lead to an agreement, the couple can settle without going to trial. This approach saves time, money, and stress.
If there is no agreement, the claim proceeds to a court trial, where a judge will make a final decision on how the property (or land) should be handled. Court trials can be costly and lengthy, so most couples are encouraged to find a resolution earlier if possible.
In most cases, yes. The process is designed to encourage resolution at the earliest opportunity. Even if the matter is already in court, an agreement can be reached at any stage, including during the trial itself. Early or timely engagement in ADR (such as mediation) can help avoid the additional time and expense of a full trial.
If you need advice about TOLATA claims or other cohabitation-related issues, our team at HM & Co. Solicitors is here to help.
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